I've written before about the intense feelings aroused by
cuckold husbands being spanked by mothers and mothers-in-law (especially when
they use an implement that the unfortunate male is all-too-familiar with from
previous spankings). One imagines that 'hubbysitting' comes about through an
agreement between a dominant matriarch and her daughter/daughter-in-law. It
isn't enough that another man is satisfying the cuckold's wife, he must be reminded of
his place in the order of things by being made to do chores and behave as his
wife wants while she is getting fucked... and who better to enforce this than
his own mother!
Jay Em's stern, voluptuous matriarchs would certainly agree
that it is perfectly 'sensible' for a wife to take a lover if her husband is
unable to satisfy her, or for her to sleep with her boss to gain a promotion
that will only improve the family's social standing. And if the husband is
unwilling, I'm sure the many painful memories brought back by his mother's good old
hairbrush or trusty belt will soon have him obeying just as absolutely as he did
when he was a boy!
And of course, if mother is unavailable (perhaps she's on a
hot date with her own lover) it would perhaps be even more humiliating for
the maid to be placed on 'hubbysitting' duty while the woman of the house is
out. Or maybe the wife could hire an actual babysitter... I'm sure she would
find that teenage girls these days are extremely open-minded!
These manips show spankings being delivered before (or just
as) the unfortunate husband is to be cuckolded, but we can also imagine some
delicious scenes once the wives have finished their liaisons:
- The husband standing naked in the corner, silently sobbing
as his wife gives her mother a blow-by-blow account of just how hot her date
got!
- Johnny's mother discovering to her 'disgust' that little
Johnny has got hard during his cornertime while listening to his wife and her
boss fucking like animals. She decides that further punishment is needed and
whips his cock with the tip of the belt until it goes down!
- The cuckold husband getting down between his wife's legs to
clean her well-fucked pussy, while the maid hands her a revitalising glass of
champagne and tells her what a good boy he's been (or not!)
Humiliation is the unifying factor in most things cuckold. Be it a stronger male, or a stern MIL giving the spankings, the humiliation is constant. I'm not quite sure which would be worse, getting spanked by a stronger man or, out of love for one's wife, allowing another man to "TOP" you, even if you could crush him like a bug? Moreover, what if it was witnessed? I could see submitting to one's MIL may be secretly a bit of a turn-on. You could always reason with yourself that you "allow" it to happen for the womens' sake. Even if witnessed, you could always play it off as a "secret turn-on", etc. So, for me, not as humiliating, but still pretty tough to swallow! I can't even begin to imagine the shame generated by a cuck getting punishment spanked in front of his friends and neighbors, or worse yet, his grown children? That humiliation would be epic, and I question any man could ever survive that soul crushing event!
ReplyDeleteYour work skirts these issues and raises many more questions. I thank you for sharing your vision and your talent!
Sorry for the add-on, but I wonder your opinion. Would it be worse to be a cuck, soundly spanked by a lifelong bully and then made his "bitch" in front of the cuck's wife, or to watch that same bully soundly spank your wife into submission and then make you into a cuck as you are forced to watch him take her?
ReplyDeleteJust like to hear your view! Thanks in advance!
Hmm I think I'd most hate (re like) to be dominated by a stronger man. It would be hard to take a weaker man seriously, unless perhaps he was outright gay, which is an interesting thought.
DeleteI did a bit of a cuckold getting humilated in front of friends/neighbours in one of my Endart manips but it's a very arousing idea so I may need to revisit it...
As to your second comment, I think most middle-class cuckolds would very much enjoy watching their wives get spanked and fucked, so I'm sure being turned into the bully's bitch would be worse. Perhaps it's more of a question for the wives...
When i first saw the title hubbysitting, a different image comes to mind. The wife may decide that her husband should not be left home unsupervised while she is out enjoying herself. She will find a manly husbandsitter and the husband will have to save his spending money to pay him. The wife before going out shows the sitter where the paddle, straps and lubricant is, in case hubby acts up. It would probably excite her while she is out thinking about what was going on at home.
DeleteThat could definitely work as one of my series, though it would be with Jonathan's art rather than Jay Em's.
DeleteMy series Gaybysitting is quite similar to your idea, but with teenage boys instead of husbands.
You're right, Jonathan's art would be more appropriate with the wife barely out of the house when the distinctive sound of a paddle against a bare butt can be heard emanating from the house. It would be quite an evening for the husband.
DeleteWhat a wonderful image that is, the smirking wife hearing the first crack of the paddle as she gets into her car
DeleteGood point! Though I think both scenarios would emasculate the normal man, the humiliation of getting taken down a peg, and taken by a bully in front of my wife would be something you don't easily get past!
ReplyDeleteBTW I love your manips. Though Jonathan pics are my faves, he never could draw a pretty woman. The only time he uses them, mostly as witnesses, is in a classroom or at the bus station. Jay-em, however, is spot on in both sexes and of course, End-art is great at both sexes as well!
Thanks, I'm really glad you like them!
DeleteI have heard that criticism of Jonathan's woman a few times. But I find his rather 'masculine' ladies to be extremely alluring, particularly the ones in his femdom art especially his bride, his schoolteacher and Mathew's wife... But I also like the idea of being dominated by a larger and/or older woman, so almost all his woman have a certain attraction for me.
The wife being spanked to submission and the cuck watching the bully
ReplyDelete- no question that would bad for both of them, but I think making the husband his bitch has to be worse. He has to endure it in front of a woman knowing the contempt she holds him in and how weak he is. She would never look at him the same way again would she?
By nature she would associate the dominant male as more impressive. Plus with the wife being spanked he has the excuse that they were both overpowered and she had no say. The most humiliating is surely when she goes along with it and approves of the bully, two against one and the fact he cannot trust her. She's like all the other
women ;-). I think the cruelty of the wife and then her joining with the bully is what hurts him the most.
The other question - the bully who is stronger fits the scenario, but if you imagine it happening domination by the weaker male could be just as emasculating. As a male, to submit to someone weaker would hurt his pride more and think about the wife's reaction as she watched. If he could outmatch the other male he'd surely look even more contemptible to the wife. She'd be saying "why did I marry this pussy... he's stronger but look at his attitude, what a wimp". The thought of her enjoying it because she admires the other man would be hard on his emotions.
Great observations. It seems that the attitude of the wife in all this is the pivotal point in the ultimate humiliation. If she, like the cucked hubby is a bullied victim, she may not view the husband as wimpy as she would if she was compliant with his bully! So, I see what QBuzz meant by asking the wives. The ultimate humiliation of the husband rides strongly on the attitude of his wife and how she reacts to his downfalls. The subspace in which a cucked hubby's mind and ego would reside would be a scary and tenuous place at best.
ReplyDeleteIn my attempts at writing I try to imagine a big, strong, once straight and macho man, kicking and struggling, bare-assed, across the knee of his wife's new lover, tears flowing freely, as family and friends listen outside the bedroom door as he is firmly "put in his place" by the younger and stronger upstart who has come into their lives. I try and try, and then just come back to QBuzz's great manips and see what I wanted all along! As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words!
Thanks, QBuzz!
Thanks both for your kind words and great observations!
DeleteI think being used as a gay sex slave by your old school bully as your wife eggs him on is possibly the ultimate example of cuckolding!
I can see the attraction of a stronger man being made to submit to a weaker man from a femdom perspective - as the dominant woman is completely in control and the men's strength has no bearing on what happens.
But the idea of a man who 'considers' himself strong being overpowered and cuckolded by an even stronger man (and in front of his friends and family too) is hot in terms of femdom, cuckolding, bi... pretty much everything :D
I do like the idea of the wife bringing a younger guy in. Also, younger wives bringing in older guys can be hot too, especially in the modern climate with older guys considering themselves 'real men' with younger guys being limp-wristed millenials...
I'm sure glad i came across your blog! My experiences aren't so much that stronger men make it easier to accept my role, it has been the more endowed male. And i have way to much experience with them because i am really small. I basically explain it as i view any guy more endowed than i am as my superior. But it doesn't make it any less embarrassing.
ReplyDeleteI think that is a very common view. Whenever I imagine being made to suck a cock, or having to watch as it slides in and out of my wife's willing pussy, it's always a lot bigger than mine!
DeleteWell that's easy for me. i really think it is one of the main reasons i am the way i am. i started out dreading gym, but eventually it entered into my fantasies. But it sure made dating a horror.
ReplyDeleteI think it is hottest when the wife (and the lover/bull) actually get off on the humiliation of the cuck... this makes for the most diabolical domination... especially when for example the more the wife humiliates and punishes the cuck the more turned on she gets for the bull, and the bull gets off on watching the wife dominate and also dominating. So you have scenarios where she goes out of her way to punish him and force him to submit to men just to humiliate him...i often wonder what happens to the sub after the Jay Em spankings... i think it is the old fashioned domestic spanking that is the most humiliating and erotic... so after your ass is torn to shreds... what does a strict sadistic mommy do for "your own good"... forced bi, forced anal rape, financial abuse, maid service, toilet service... and then i love that once week or once a month the cuck is allowed a hand job... though a very cruel wife will have young girls around to assist in his humiliation and they will be required to edge him every day and then spit in his face... and of course... in my world, after drop dead mommy tears your ass to shreds inside and out with her hairbrush and dildo... then your pathetic cock is locked so sexual frustration can be maximized to the point of tears...
ReplyDeleteI think you could be right about Jay Em's wives. They ooze with a sadistic relish that suggests they could certainly do everything you describe, and their Amazonian figures suggest the men in the drawings could not hope to satisfy them, and they would have to call on a lover...
DeleteJay Em did a few strap-on drawings and they were certainly spectacular. Sadly nothing on bisexuality, financial abuse or toilet training though...